Does clarity feel elusive?
YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO MOVE FORWARD BUT ARE NOT EVEN SURE WHERE TO BEGIN.
YOU GET FABULOUS IDEAS & THEN BEGIN SECOND-GUESSING EVERYTHING.
YOU FIND YOURSELF SEEKING AFFIRMATION ON REPEAT.
clarity just feels hard.
I get it. I used to think clarity was 'out there' and I just couldn't seem to find it. I kept looking for clarity in new opportunities, relationships, adventures, and all the rest. I wasn’t looking for clarity where it resides. Within.
I was trying to hustle, wrangle, produce, and orchestrate clarity from outside myself because looking within was just too damn scary. I was getting in my own way.
I gave myself (and others) every reason in the book why clarity eluded me. Truth be told, I wasn’t willing to look my own bullshit in the eye. Like really, really look it in the eye. My excuses, fears, shame, pride, and habitual patterns were the only thing clouding me from clarity. Maybe you can relate. Here’s the first step to cultivating clarity — for everything.
Drop the hustle & bravado. Step into the current of truth.
Clarity loves to hang out with our authentic self -- the brilliant person we've always been before we got busy trying to fit in, belong, and make it in a world demanding us to be someone else.
When we stop hustling for belonging and step into the current of radical honesty, we begin to belong to ourselves again. Then everything begins to shift in our life.
We start choosing the experiences, careers, & relationships we really desire rather than those that are just comfortable.
we numb less and begin to feel more.
we get to know ourselves again without all the labels & boxes of definition.
we start taking action based on internal conviction rather than external convenience.