EMPATHY IN PRACTICE HOLDS THE UNIQUE POWER OF BRINGING US TOGETHER WITH COMPASSION, RESPECT, AND COURAGE, REGARDLESS OF THE FORCES BETWEEN US.
Empathy is NOT just available to the naturally gifted among us.
It is a skill we can learn, develop, and practice.
TO STRENGTHEN OUR PRACTICE,
WE MUST BEGIN WITHIN.
THE PIECES OF THE PRACTICE
PAUSE FOR A MOMENT. HOW WELL DO YOU OFFER THESE PIECES OF EMPATHY TO YOURSELF?
HOLDING OPEN SPACE
MAKING AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION
COMMUNICATING--WITH WORDS & IN THE QUIET--THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE
NINE STEPS TO STRENGTHENING YOUR PRACTICE
1. Take note of the strengths and opportunities that arose in the reflection above.
2. Make a commitment to exercise your strengths more consciously. Name specifically how you will exercise them.
3. Acknowledge the opportunities as simply that...opportunities. They are nothing more.
4. Next, how can you specifically flex the muscles of just one opportunity? What do you need to practice flexing this muscle?
5. Write down right now how flexing this muscle will feel. What impact will its conscious flexion have for yourself and others?
6. Tell a loved one your plan. Take the action. Choose conscious practice rather than reaching for elusive perfection.
7. Revisit with your loved one in 30 days what you both observe as you practice this one opportunity.
8. Don't rinse; simple repeat for each opportunity.
9. As the opportunities grow into new skills, integrate them with your established strengths to further deepen your practice.
Practicing each piece of empathy--with yourself and others--will strengthen your self-awareness, connection, and relationships.
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