Our Collective Courage


In a deeply raw time for us all, I've been reminded of the power of practicing one's courage even when we don't feel like it, even when it's terrifying, and no matter the outcome.

Courage is showing up anyway.

Releasing all outcomes.

Courage is embodying our beliefs consistently--whether no one is watching or the whole world is watching.


It can be inspiring to witness courage in others. We marvel at their bravery in motion and yet, can often feel set apart from them somehow. “I couldn’t do that, I’m not that brave, …”

However, when we see courage in practice in others, we must remember we are actually witnessing their vulnerability. Simply put, courage and vulnerability are one. As Brené Brown says, “we cannot get to courage without walking through vulnerability.”

A wonderful benchmark of our courage in action is by observing how often we lean into our vulnerability in practice.

As we prepare to head into a fresh, new month, let’s choose to practice our courage. Let’s practice it where most meaningful for us. Whether taking action, deepening awareness, or a blend of the two, may we lean into our practice this fall with all we’ve got, friends.


  • Choose the strength of vulnerability — in a meeting, conversation, a new connection.

  • Listen to your small, deep inner voice. Listen to the whisper before it becomes a yell.

  • Show up when it’s the right thing, even when nerves, loneliness, or fear are present.

  • Make the first move to build a connection, network, or explore a new opportunity.

  • Get still. Stop wearing stress and the to-do list as a badge of honor.

  • Choose self-care as an anchor of your courage rather than a reward for it.

  • Take the next right step, the next right action that serves your highest good.

  • Establish or re-establish your boundaries. Embody your beliefs and stick to them.

  • Give your pride a rest and own your mistakes. Share them with a loved one.

  • Reconnect with someone you love that you haven’t given time and space to lately.

Everything we want is on the other side of our courage and the world needs us awake, leading, living, and loving with intention.


Thank you all for being here in this community--whether you are raising your voice in the comments or simply observing in the background. Something brought you to this blog--hopefully something is staying with you too.

No matter where you are or what you believe, we need you. All of you. We need your own unique courage in this world.

So keep making friends with your courage. Push yourself. Ask for what you need. Show up, even when you don't feel like it. Share your support. Do the best you can with what you have each day. Trust yourself. And know all of us in this collective are joining with you and standing right alongside you.

As Rumi used to say, we're all just walking each other home.

Thanks for walking together,

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An intuitive leadership and life coach for 14 years and founder of The Courage Practice™Tonyalynne Wildhaber coaches individuals, leaders, coaches, and soulful entrepreneurs to make friends with their courage, integrate wisdom with strategy, step into their highest potential, and transform their abundance and life from the inside out.

Tonyalynne is a frequent contributor to Forbes and Thrive Global. She is head-over-heels in love with the Pacific Northwest, loves iced coffee in all weather, and is attempting to train a dog named Ollie.

Courage in practice continuously transforms Tonyalynne’s own life in countless ways. She believes in the power of its practice and its connection to living out our highest purpose and for navigating challenge and transition with greater ease. She loves collaborating with others in cultivating their own unique practice of courage and welcomes such connection with you. Click here to book a complimentary consultation.