To the One Who Learned to Feel Loved by Being Needed
For years you believed that being needed was the same as being loved. That carrying the weight, keeping the light, holding steady through the storm was proof of your worth. But your body knows the truth: love is not earned. Love is given & received. And you are ready for the kind that stays.
When Justice Falters, Courage Must Rise
They passed the bill. Now we pass the threshold. This isn’t just about politics—it’s about the future we’re shaping. Real independence asks us to respond, not retreat. The question is no longer what now? It’s will you show up for what matters?
To the One Who’s Still Willing to Feel in a Country That Keeps Choosing Force
This weekend, war was chosen again—with devastating ease. In moments like this, many of us feel the pull to harden, to turn off the news, to numb out. But what if the most courageous act we can offer isn’t disconnection—it’s presence?
In this raw and timely letter, intuitive coach and writer Tonyalynne Wildhaber explores how emotional resilience, grief literacy, and revolutionary tenderness offer us a path forward when force and domination are once again chosen on the world stage. What if our culture’s obsession with control is really a fear of intimacy? What if war is a symptom of our refusal to stay with what hurts?
This letter is a call to root before we rise. It is a reckoning, a prayer, and a reminder that real power comes not from numbness—but from staying soft when the world tries to harden us.
Read the full letter: To the One Who’s Still Willing to Feel in a Country That Chooses Force
To the One Who’s Trying to Understand the Kind of Love They Long For
Most of us learned to accept versions of love that left us thirsty—rationed, rushed, or wrapped in performance. But real love doesn’t make you beg. It meets you in your longing and stays. In this letter, we explore the ache of wanting more, the courage it takes to name what we truly need, and the moment we stop shrinking our hunger to match what was never meant to fill us.
To the One Who’s Weighing the Risk of Change but Forgetting the Cost of Staying the Same
We talk a lot about the risk of change. But what we don’t talk about enough is the risk of staying right where we are. This letter isn’t a push. It’s a moment of truth. And maybe it’s the one you’ve been waiting for…
To the One Who’s Ready to Create Something New This Spring
You want to be alive. You want to bloom from your bones. You want to wake up to yourself, moaning with meaning. And you can…